Have you tried all the weight loss plans, the diets, the gimmicks, the wraps, the shakes, the pills, and everything in between? Well, hello twinnie, because I have too. A few years ago, I found myself at the lowest point in my life and I was desperate for anyone to help me. I didn’t care if that person selling me a product cared about my success, I only wanted ME to stop hating ME. I wanted to lose weight so badly that I was willing to do whatever it took. Weight loss plans, no matter how dangerous or extreme? No problem, I didn’t care.
What a mistake that was. Not only did I NOT have success, I wasted money and put my health in danger. I don’t want the same for you.
Sadness was an outfit I wore every day…..
The girl in this photo was sad. She was so sad she refused to make eye contact with the camera. She hated life, she cried all the time, she pushed away her husband’s compliments, and she felt like she was so far gone that no one could help her.
“She” is me.
I wish you could sit down with the old me and chat for 5 minutes. You would find a completely different person staring back at you. That girl is not the person you know today.
You would see the me who hadn’t found her voice, the me who couldn’t look you in the eye, and the me who was afraid to laugh too loudly for fear of being stared at.
That girl needed a true friend to believe in her.
Do you know what the old me didn’t need? She didn’t need any more over priced or unhealthy weight loss plans, she didn’t need more workout videos promising fast results, not another gym membership she would never use, and it surely wasn’t another expensive personal trainer she couldn’t afford.
The old me needed a hug from someone who believed in her. That hug never came, that belief never came, that support never came. There was no tribe to lean on.
I do not want that for you. I am here, I am your friend…we are in this together. I will hug your neck when you cry, I will be your shoulder to lean on when you feel like you aren’t worth this journey, and I am going to stand behind you and push you when you try to stop. I will not let you quit.
CAN YOU BE HONEST WITH ME FOR A SECOND?
- Have you already given up on yourself?
- Have you already accepted that your current state of health or weight is just your destiny?
- Have you decided that it’s just not worth it?
- Have you told yourself excuses so many times that now you really do believe them?
I bet you have thought at least one time that you can’t do this, right?
I see your head nodding. Don’t worry, I said all those things too. We are more alike than you realize.
- What if I told you that you can succeed this time?
- What if I was right?
- What if I believed in you so much that it opened your own eyes to hope for a healthier life?
My friend, I’m tired of seeing you hurt. I’m tired of seeing you cry. I’m tired of seeing you accept the life you are living instead of loving your life. I’m tired for you.
I want you to smile back at me without those tears in your eyes.
I want happiness for you.
Me wanting this for you, won’t make it happen.
I need you to commit to yourself.
Don’t commit to me, don’t promise me, don’t promise anyone but yourself:
Commit to you.
No one else needs that commitment because no one else’s life is hanging in the balance on your health…but yours.
I am here to help you, I am here to be your guide, I am here to be your friend, and I am here to be your support.
I am not here to do the work for you and I won’t pretend that the road is easy. I won’t promise you the weight will fall off of you and I surely won’t promise you a bag of magic beans that make miracles happen.
I will promise you that the journey is worth it, I will promise that sticking to my programs will provide results, I will promise you that you will never be on the journey alone again.
I WILL PROMISE THAT YOU ARE WORTH FIGHTING FOR.
Want my help but don’t know what program is right for you? I can’t answer that for you but I can tell you what each program has and I can tell you that if you choose honestly, you will be happy with what you chose. If you aren’t sure, comment below and I’ll help you!
Did anything I say sound familiar? Leave me a comment below and let me hear your story!